The Ring Advice
Unless you've arranged otherwise, most wedding ceremonies involve the exchange of rings to
symbolize the union you have undertaken. As there are no legal obligations to wear a ring, some people choose to exchange rings at the ceremony, but not wear them everyday.
Wedding rings are one of the hidden costs of a wedding. Many couples get so caught up in the
organization of the day, that they forget to budget in the cost of the rings. It is usually best to select, order and pay for your rings quite early so that you've completed one aspect of your
organization.
Some couples choose matching wedding bands, but there is no tradition that says this is essential. Bands may be ornate or plain, and can be chosen in a variety of materials such as yellow gold, rose gold, white gold, platinum, and silver.
When selecting a ring, the bride-to-be should be aware that if she is wearing an engagement ring, the wedding ring will need to compliment it, so it is a good idea to choose both at the same time.
It is also important to be take note of the carat of these rings if they are gold....it is not wise to mix the carat of your rings as the more vulnerable ring may wear with time. For example, a 9 carat gold ring has less gold content than an 18 carat ring, and instead is combined with stronger metals. If you pair a 9ct and an 18ct ring, the stronger 9ct ring may rub against the softer 18ct and cause damage over a period of time. The rule is, the higher the carat of the gold, the softer the ring is as the gold content is higher. Most engagement and wedding rings are made in 18ct gold, but 9ct is acceptable as a stronger and cheaper alternative.
At the wedding ceremony, the ring is usually held by the best man until required for the service, or tied to a pillow held by a ring bearer. The bride should remove her engagement ring for the ceremony (maybe wear it on the ring finger of her other hand), so that the wedding ring may be slipped onto her left ring finger by the groom. Once the ceremony is over, the engagement ring may be put back on without removing the wedding ring. The idea is that the wedding ring is closest to her heart.
Buying a Wedding Ring
Buying a wedding ring is probably one of the most significant and expensive purchases you will ever make. And unlike a car of home, which you'll eventually replace or sell, a wedding ring is meant to last a lifetime.
A ring, of course, is not only a financial investment but an emotional one, as well. It's easy to fall in love with a ring that is way out of your price range, but try not to get too carried away.
Determine ahead of time how much you want to spend and try to stay within your budget. The general rule of thumb is that you shouldn't spend more than two months of your salary, although some couples spend a lot less and some spend considerably more.
When buying an engagement or wedding ring, the best advice is to take your time and comparison shop. Visit several different jewelers and ask a lot of questions. The more you know, the better able you'll be to make an informed decision.
Some couples opt for matching wedding bands. Others don't. It's a matter of personal preference. If you and your
fiancée decide on matching wedding bands, make sure your wedding band complements your engagement ring.
More than 1.6 million people buy engagement rings each year at an average price of $1,500. Not surprisingly, the most popular choice among brides is the diamond ring. Whether it's a traditional or contemporary setting, the diamond is the most beloved of all the precious stones.
